By Margy Frazier
Staff Writer
From the first time my family and I visited Saint Mary-of-the-Woods College, we heard talk of the traditions. One tradition in particular that our tour-guide talked about several times throughout our tour was Big Sis/Lil’ Sis week.
She explained that for one week the upperclassmen would each adopt a freshman, international, or transfer student and spend a week leaving them gifts and decorating their doors. At the end of the week the bigs would reveal themselves to their littles.
The point of this tradition, our tour guide explained, was to help freshmen begin creating a support system and to guarantee that there would always be someone watching over them.
With all of the talk, I could not wait for the week to begin and was I ever in for a treat when the week started.
On Oct. 24, the announcement came over the loudspeaker at approximately 9:50 p.m. saying, “freshmen, transfers, and international students, you must be in your room in exactly ten minutes.”
My wing started going crazy. We ran from each other’s rooms, joking that this would be the last time we would see each other for a long time. After a few moments, our RA ushered us into our rooms and warned us to stay inside.
Soon we heard it; pounding on the doors, loud music playing, and worst of all – the sound of tape. Every one of my freshmen friends sent me a Facebook message, nearly all at once.
And if they weren’t on Facebook, they were on Skype. “I hear tape!” one friend wrote me in a panic. “I’m not going to be able to get out in the morning!”
Monday morning came and my roommate, Tracey Dykstra and I could get out of our room – but just barely. Tracey’s big sis had stretched men’s Depend diapers across our door. We carefully tore the bottom few off and found our treasures.
I was left a few goodies, and a magician’s costume, which I was instructed to wear all day. I did – to class, to meals, even to Chorale. In addition, I had to bring with me a magic kit and I was to perform six different tricks throughout the day.
Monday night wasn’t quite as frightening as the night before, now that we had a general idea of what would be happening. Tracey and I waited up for our bigs to come to our door, and then passed notes under the door with them.
Tuesday morning Tracey and I stood together inside of our room and slowly opened our door. A white curtain hung outside of our door and it blew gracefully as we stepped outside.
As we looked through our new gifts I discovered giant wall stickers, which I promptly stuck all over my room. After doing so I went back out to the hallway to discover my new costume for the day.
On this day Tracey would have to dress like a person from medieval times and I like the “alligator queen.” With my costume I found a note that told me to stand on a chair during lunch and announce that I was the queen of the alligators.
Lunch was fantastic – I danced the Cha-Cha slide with a few other friends, watched skits and dances, and listened to people sing. After a while, I built up the courage to stand on a chair and make my announcement. A loud applause followed.
Tuesday night was one of my favorite nights of the week! One of our bigs stood outside of our door decorating and whistled Christmas tunes at us. We stayed awake until past midnight passing notes under the door.
We opened the door Wednesday morning to find garbage bags covering the opening. As the door swung in green balloons fell inside our room forcing us to practically swim through them to get out of our room.
Tracey discovered the reason for the balloon color right away – she was to dress like a witch for the day.
I, on the other hand, was Garfield. Much to my professor’s delight, I gave a PowerPoint presentation that day to the class while wearing a mask and tail.
That night, my big sis, Jessica Zogbi, revealed herself to my twin and I because she couldn’t make it to revelation night. Jessica gave us shirts that she had tie-dyed with our initials on the front. Although we couldn’t go out that night, we decided to spend some time together later in the month.
Tracey and I locked ourselves in the room and when our bigs came we passed tons of notes under the door with them. “There’s like 11 of us out here,” said one note. “It’s a huge mess, and so much fun.”
Tracey and I opened our door to find blue and yellow streamers weaved in front of our doorway on Thursday morning. There were horse posters plastered over our walls, and a final few gifts. Tracey would have to dress as a cowboy and ride her stick horse at lunch.
She asked me to join her and after we “rode” against each other she was declared the winner.
The whole experience was so great!
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